She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

Ian Kerner

Language: English

Pages: 240

ISBN: 0060538260

Format: PDF / Kindle (mobi) / ePub

“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”


Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”




















may simply be nothing more than the roots of the clitoris crisscrossing the urethral sponge. When Raindrops Keep Falling on Your Head: Female Ejaculation 12 HE G-SPOT is also thought to be the source of female T ejaculation, another matter of controversy. Does a woman actually ' ejaculate? The answer is yes, but not in the same sense as the explosive male orgasm and not nearly as often as the “ejaculation evangelists” would have us believe. In general, female ejaculation

head to the attentions of your tongue. 28 The Importance of Teamwork OW IT'S TIME to put some real ground behind us on the road Nof arousal. So far, your tongue has been leading; but now, in the spirit of good old-fashioned teamwork, let's get your fingers and hands into the action. It's all for one and one for all. Think of your tongue, hands, and fingers as three members of a jazz trio. As with any great band, everyone has to work together in order to create beautiful music.

role of your hands; not flashy like the tongue, or deft like the simple tongue strokes. Don't rush to insert more fingers. Save fingers, but nevertheless crucial in supporting the melody. them for later. For now, there's a teasing aspect to the still, single Assuming for the moment that you're right-handed, it's your left finger and its presence stimulates her pelvic muscles to work: hand that will generally be employed in this supportive role, as your you're giving her something to reach for

emphasize a few key principles: postponement of male gratification and the importance of female satisfaction; regulation and conservation of male ejaculation (you don't orgasm every time you have sex); and the understanding that an orgasm is not the same as ejaculation. This last point is more relevant to men in that it encourages recognizing when you're on the verge of orgasm and then pulling back. (When you hear someone talk about male “multiple orgasm” and “going all night” without cessation,

a new tool to enable pleasure: • Question: “I'm currently dating a few different women, so I guess Brush her clitoral head with the edge of the dam. you could say I'm not monogamous, at least not now. I'm at a point • Or insert one end of the dam inside her vagina and press up in my life where I just want to have fun, but that doesn't mean I don't against her clitoral cluster as you wrap the remaining piece up want the fun to be safe, so I use a latex barrier when going down on a around

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